Dating to most women is a nerve racking experience. You become paranoid about whether or not he will like you, or if he will still ask you out on a next date, or whether he likes your dress or your hair. There are so many things that could go wrong that most women back out. But do not lose hope, here are some dating tips that will help you calm your nerves and give you a boost of confidence.
1. Look good on your date.
This is a must! If you want to make a good impression on your date, looking good is always a good first step. Taking a shower is good but it is not enough. You have to wear an outfit that is both comfortable and eye-catching. Do not overdo it though. Try to think about what message your dress is saying, so make it appropriate too. Now, smelling good will also help you reel in your date. Put on a bit of perfume or cologne. Men who like what they see will often ask you out on another date.
2. Never be late.
It is acceptable for you to be fashionably late, what with all the dressing up, the hair, and the makeup you have to go through just to prep for your date. It is also somewhat good for the man when you run a little bit late. This can help them prepare and relax more. However, make sure you do not make him wait too long. He might think you are no longer coming or that you have little respect for his time.
3. Be lady-like and respectable.
Let the men be gentlemen and you a lady. If your date does not act like one, you do not have to force him. Part of being lady-like is being respectful. Now if the guy opens the door for you, let him. When he pulls out the chair for you, allow him to do so. Always thank him after every act of chivalry. This will show him that you acknowledge his effort in being a gentleman.
4. Offer to pay.
Okay, men are usually expected to pay but nowadays it is not always true. Offering to pay half of your meal is a thoughtful gesture. But of course if your date insists, then let him pay.
At the end of your date, let him take you home safely. It is up to you if you intend on giving him a goodnight kiss as a reward for a job well done.
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