Sunday, October 31, 2010

What To Do On A First Date

When you decide to take a woman out, the first date is always the best time to impress her. How things go on the first date will dictate whether or not she will go out with you for another date. So it is absolutely a must to be at your best on your first date. So to help you out, here are some tips:

1. Take a shower.

This is one of the most important things to do when going out on a first date, well even on other consecutive dates. You always have to look fresh and good, and smell good if you want a woman to go out with you. You have to up your game all the more when it is your first date.

2. Do not make her wait!

Just like in any business meeting when you want to land a client, you never make the woman wait. It is rude and unbecoming. When you come later than expected, the woman may feel like you have completely undermined and disrespected her time. Even on the very first date you need to show her how much you care and respect her by being on time.

3. Be a gentleman.

Every woman likes being treated like royalty. This is especially important on a first date. Make her feel special and pampered by opening the doors for her, and pulling the chair out when she sits down. Being a gentleman will greatly impress your date, and help pave the way to a second date.

4. Listen to what she is saying.

Avoid talking too much about yourself. When you listen to hear, you show her that you are interested and want to know her more. Listen to what she is saying and maybe you will have an idea what to say next.

5. Offer to pay.

It is appropriate for you as a gentleman to offer to pay. It may display an act of chivalry! However, other women would like to pay half of the cost. Do not resist.

6. Drive safely on your way home.

Take her home safely. Getting her into trouble would surely dash your hope of going out on a second date with her. Do not drink too much on your first date too. Having her drive your car because you are too drunk to drive will definitely leave her with a bad impression. 

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